It is expensive to become kind hearted nice man

Now a days government of Bangladesh has taken decision to implement the formula “Food for work”. This is because many of the people newly immigrant to capital city choose the begging as profession to maintain their lively hood.
Being the third world country we are already lays behind in terms of financially. For the reason all other department and business sector is also backwards. But early in the 15th or 16th century Bangladesh and India reason were very rich. From the ancient ages people remain a bit philosophical. They are mostly as like as a priest of temple or disciple of any saint. And to maintain their own life they used to beg from door to door, village to village or to a distance area.
Because of the non social and non business funda, people never saw this profession negatively. The practice remains keep going on and now a days lots of beggar in the street making their lively hood from begging. Their income is not bad at all. They can earn more than any new/provision/internee officer. But this is making trouble and getting a headache of general people. Often we lack of worker and barrier to making of specialist worker. There are both positive and negative sides of this profession. So let the social father’s deicide weather it should continue or not.
Wise man was always had a large mind. He was a great and kind hearted man. But being that great his family decided to find a bride for him. It was the age for marriage and his family decided that an arranged marriage should they look for. Wise man was new in capital and doing a new job. So he gave the responsibility to his family for the wedding. They will find bride for him and arrange all other program me of wedding ceremony.
As wise man was very great it was natural that he would help some poor people around him. I am talking about a boy who used to beg in front of a café near to his office. Wise man used to give 500 taka starting each month. But after getting marriage wise man had to cut the budget for the lad he used to give 500 bucks. Now he started to give the boy only 250 bucks. After 3 years wise man had a kid. Now he stops giving the lad money.
The poor lad catches wise man at bus stop. The 300 bucks is also a lot for him. The lad asked wise man “What happen to you? Why you stop giving money to me?”
Wise man got understands his feelings. All knew wise man had a great mind. He replied the boy” My son I have a kid now. So it is getting hard for me to give you 300 bucks per month. I have to feed my kid. So, I had to cut your budget now. But I am sorry about the situation. You can come my home some times and can have meal with us”.
The lad said,”Forget about the meal. First you answer me how much you spend my money till now to your wife and kid?”
Although wise man again made the budget and started giving money to the lad.
But I was thinking any way it is always expensive to become kind hearted nice man. Only a rich can be kind and nice person.

Wise man in HENI

Wise man asked Ibrahim, “Why people want to be sad/sorry and unhappy?” Ibrahim had stared at wise man face hold his sight for few seconds then he looked at ground.
“He started thinking”; thought wise man. Now wise man also making list what Ibrahim can think now. He was making guesses and tried to make the list of accurate thoughts of Ibrahim. Wise man started making the sequences and possibility of the probable thought lists of Ibrahim also.
Wise man guessed:
1. Ibrahim is judging Wiseman. More accurate to say Ibrahim is trying to estimate wise man’s question.
After a few seconds nearly about a minute Ibrahim again looked at wise man’s face. Then Ibrahim again looked at ground.
Wiseman guessed again:
2. Ibrahim was trying to make the category of the question. Most probably he wanted to know weather it is a fun or wise man is serious.
Again Ibrahim looked up and his view went to the distance far from the position he was seating. There was an infinite thing in his view. And most possibly about his own sorrows and life. People of Bangladesh is very emotional. They love emotions and often they call their own bad luck. Wise man was also in that group. But one thing was most common among people that they love them selves very much. This was a thing that can motivate the people for their own progress. There is another thing common in people of the Bangladesh, people have EGO also. Although some people see EGO and emotion in negative way. They think that to get progress these 2 things have to remove from the human character.
Any way looking at Ibrahim wise man said ;”Ibrahim, OK no problem you do not have to answer it right now. I will come again to HENI again with is few days. You can answer to it then.”
Actually wise man knew he did not ask the question to get the answer. Actually the thing was that Ibrahim is a very talented GUY and got frustrated of waiting. He was waiting to change his own luck, his family luck. He wanted to get financially sound. He wanted to take his mother and his wife to tour around the world. But those remain dream to him yet. Now-a-days he bought an auto rickshaw and leading his life. Ibrahim is a very good singer of emotional song. In any local social, family, cultural and events he presents his songs But one thing is very good about Ibrahim is that he was very loyal to the people to whom he has to be.
Wise man noted some point of his not getting success of his life.
Wise man knew that Ibrahim will remember the question and will think about the life again and again whenever he will be alone. After a certain period wise man will make him think the thing, emotion is some thing if you define and apply it in negative way; you will ruin your life.
Some times I found wise man very great also. Oh god!!! thanks a lot; even I mixed great people in my life.